I work full time, I usually work 50-60 hours a week I leave for work somewhere between 5:30 and 6:30am Monday through Friday and get home somewhere between 5pm and 7pm. I do not work on the weekends but I do bring work home.
DH is a student and is not working. He is taking 4 classes and because of his schedule can't find a job because his schedule is just weird. We also decided we didn't want him to work so he could concentrate on school. However, he is picking up more of the slack at home. He is doing more cooking, cleaning, and dealing with the kids.
I have always cooked for our family, it is something I have always enjoyed but with working the schedule I have been I haven't done it as much - mainly because I am exhausted when I get home and if they waited till I got home, it would be 8pm before we ate some nights.
Tonight DH asks me when I am going to start on dinner, which I had no problem with. Then he adds the smartass comment, "it is something easy so you should be able to handle it". WTF! I cook dinner from SCRATCH when I cook! I said "What are you talking about?! I cook all the time" He then said "what have you cooked lately?" I named a few things and he basically said, my answer wasn't good enough. I got up rather pissed and walked away to start dinner. He followed me into the kitchen and said he was just joking. I told him he was being an ASS! He started laughing and said he was just messing with me. I told him that it wasn't funny and he made me feel like crap, and he apologized. Shit! I make really nice dinners! SUE ME for being TIRED after working 50-60 hours a week and putting him through school! UGH! He is such an ass some times!