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SAHM has your husband ever

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Throwed in your face that you don't work.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:17 PM
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by on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:21 PM

Nope, I dare him to. But he has also stayed home with the kids for a few days at a time and doesn't understand how woman don't go crazy when they do it. 

by spitfire_bobbie on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:22 PM
He jokes about it sometimes just like I tease him about not doing housework. Neither of us mean it because we chose this lifestyle together.
by Anonymous 12 on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:22 PM
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Once. We were having a stupid fight.

I responded by cutting up my bank card and telling him since I didn't earn money I couldn't spend it. He was stuck with all the grocery shopping and bill paying for a good couple of weeks before I took back my responsibility.

He instantly regretted saying it and I've said mean things to him I've regretted. We aren't perfect but we are perfect for each other.
by on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:22 PM

 no, he is the first one to admit that i have the hardest job out of the two of us.

by Anonymous 13 on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:22 PM
He did for the first time the other month. I said since I don't make money and this is apparently your house and your bed I'll be going else where to sleep. If you want me or the kids we'll be at my moms tomorrow. I don't know when I'll be back. I got up and went into my sons room to sleep, since it was 10pm. He begged my forgiveness and said he would never say anything so stupid again. I said if he does I would leave right then and there
by on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:22 PM


by Anonymous 14 on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:23 PM

In addition to looking for a job, you should also be looking for a divorce lawyer. There is no reason to stay with a verbally abusive jerk. 

Quoting NikkiGross42:

Daily.. Everytime he talks to me.. He asked me to quit my job to stay home with the kids.. Then tells me I do nothing, I am lazy, He is the only one that works.. I have put applications in all over town, but only one interview and never heard back.. But he still rubs it in my face!

by Ruby Member on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:23 PM
He has when he was mad or upset about something (usually out of my control!), I quickly remind him I will happily go back to work and we can go back to paying out way too much money for child care AND I would be more than happy to split the household chores.
He hasn't used that in an argument in awhile. ...
I do not mind working, although i would def miss being a sahm!
by *Claire-Bear* on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:23 PM a matter of fact, he fussed at me the other day for saying that I don't work. He told me that it irked him that I said that..especially in front of our girls that are 5 and 8 (tomorrow). I conceded appreciatively. LOL


" I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 

by Anonymous 15 on Nov. 4, 2013 at 12:23 PM

My fiancĂ©e did so I got a part time job, then he complained about the house being dirty, no cooking... Lol so I went to work full time, and now he's my ex. Too damn dependent on me cleaning, cooking, doing laundry and taking care of the kids. 

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