My grandma adopted my three cousins, DC1, DC2, DC3. Their mom, my aunt, was a druggie alcoholic.
DC1 had two babies with two different baby daddy's. Her DS1 lives with her mom (my aunt has reformed her druggie and alcoholic ways). Her DS2 lives with his dad.
DC2 has two kids, and she is my BFF.
DC3 has 1 DD.
Dc1 & DC3 are both druggies and pill poppers, so DC2 took DC3's DD from her. DC1& DC3 are doing meth in a trailer park.
Ok, so now that the interesting part is out of the way, here is my dilemma. DC2 and I planned for our two families to go on vacation and we rented a house together. Originally just 7 of us.
Then she invited our grandma to come with us, that makes it 8.
Then she invited her mom and DC1's DS, and I put my foot down and said NO. I did not want to vacation with a zoo. In one house. It's a vacation...
Now she told me, one month before we are going, that she has to bring DC3's DD because she is getting legal custody of her and she has no where to keep her.
I'm ok with her getting legal custody, I honestly am, but I doubt she will actually do it.
I'm mad because we went from 7 to 9 people in a 4 bedroom house. I'm mad because this was supposed to be a vacation and now instead of just 3 kids, there will be 3 kids and a BABY (under 1yo)! I'm also mad because I half to pay half for my grandma, because she is poor and doesn't have a job and it's her 70th birthday, and I felt guilty, so she's coming.
Did you keep up? Any questions? Go ahead bash me. I understand, it does seem like I hate kids, and my DC2 believes I hate kids, and she's not talking to me right now. But we already bought our tickets and paid our rental in full, so we are all going. There's no turning back.