Well now their lease is up and she wants to move back in (rent free) until they save up money to buy a new place. I told her no. First off I dont really feel comfortable with him moving in because I do not know him that well and as I told her she is on her own she needs to figure it out. They both have jobs and have been paying rent they can find another place. I am also pissed that she asked me not only to move in but to live here rent free. She wanted to be an adult and having your lease be over and having to find another place to live is part of that.
ETA: my DD just wants to live with us to live rent free. Her and her DH have jobs and work full time. Their rent is only $475 a month which is a lot less than they both make. They have so far not saved up any money so far. I used bad wording in my post when I said they were savign up to buy. They are not trying to buy a house or saving for a downpayment. I dont think they are trying to save up at all just living rent free. It would be one thing if they had money already in savings or were saving for a down payment. But the fact that she didnt want to pay rent and only wants to live rent free isnt a good reason for her to move back in. I dont enable mooching and that is what she is trying to do