Long story short as possible I wrote my mom a letter the other day saying I felt it best we cut contact for the time being because of her continually trying to get me to sign over custody of my dd. Started when I found out I was pg, then when dd was a toddler she started calling CPS, thinking they would take her away. DD is now 13, so my mom decided it would be a good idea to lie to my dd. Tell her I do drugs, that I don't love her, and that I don't take care of her the way she should be taken care of. She even went so far as to tell my dd that if she moved in with her and my dad that she could have her room painted any color she wanted, and she could have anything she ever asked for. Two days after my dd told me that I wrote the letter to my mom. I expected to lose my dad, my brother and the rest of my side of the family. But why would I lose my dh's side of the family? My sd and grandson?? Because I have a vindictive, hateful so-called mother who sent EVERYONE a pm on fb telling them some awful thing I did. She didn't do anything, it was me, all me. I hate her for being such a good mom, she's so heart-broken that her only daughter hates her when all she ever did was love me. I saw some posts between her and my brother today. (She didn't block her page from my dh, so he saw it and showed me.) Saying that she knows I'll get depressed. See how hard she has to push, might take a little while, but I'm sure she'll (me) eventually kill herself, then I'll finally get ** (my dd). I'm in shock. I think I'm mostly over the anger tho, I think I'm mostly hurt, so very hurt.