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lmportant, please read!!! *warning maybe graphic for some*

Anonymous
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I think our society needs a huge "Wake-up" call. As a shelter manager, I am going to share a little insight with you all... a view from the inside if you will.
First off, all of you people who have ever surrendered a pet to a shelter or humane society should be made to work in the "back" of an animal shelter for just one day. Maybe if you saw the life drain from a few sad, lost, confused eyes, you would stop flagging the ads on Craigslist and help these animals find homes. That puppy you just bought will most likely end up in my shelter when it's not a cute little puppy anymore. Just so you know there's a 90% chance that dog will never walk out of the shelter it's dumped at? Purebred or not!
About 25% of all of the dogs that are "owner surrenders" or "strays", that come into a shelter are purebred dogs.The most common excuses: "We are moving and we can't take our dog (or cat)." Really? Or they say, "The dog got bigger than we thought it would". How big did you think a German Shepherd would get? "We don't have time for her". Really? I work a 10-12 hour day and still have time for my 6 dogs! "She's tearing up our yard". How about making her a part of your family? They always tell me, "We just don't want to have to stress about finding a place for her. We know she'll get adopted, she's a good dog".
Odds are your pet won't get adopted & how stressful do you think being in a shelter is? Well, let me tell you, your pet has 72 hours to find a new family from the moment you drop it off. Sometimes a little longer if the shelter isn't full & your dog manages to stay completely healthy. If it sniffles, it dies. Your pet will be confined to a small run/kennel in a room with other barking or crying animals. It will have to relieve itself where it eats & sleeps. It will be depressed & it will cry constantly for the family that abandoned it. If your pet is lucky, I will have enough volunteers in that day to take him/her for a walk. If I don't, your pet won't get any attention besides having a bowl of food slid under the kennel door & the waste sprayed out of its pen with a high-powered hose.If your dog is big, black or any of the "Bully" breeds (pit bull, rottie, mastiff, etc) it was pretty much dead when you walked it through the front door.
Those dogs just don't get adopted. It doesn't matter how 'sweet' or 'well behaved' they are.If your dog doesn't get adopted in 72 hours & the shelter is full in most cases, it will be destroyed. If the shelter isn't full & your dog is good enough & of a desirable enough breed it may get a stay of execution, but not for long. Most dogs get very kennel protective after about a week & are destroyed for showing aggression. Even the sweetest dogs will turn in this environment. If your pet makes it over all of those hurdles, chances are it will get kennel cough or an upper respiratory infection & will be destroyed because the shelter gets paid a fee to euthanize each animal, & making money is better than spending money to take this animal to the vet.
Here's a little euthanasia 101 for those of you that have never witnessed a perfectly healthy, scared animal being "put-down".First, your pet will be taken from its kennel on a leash. They always look like they think they are going for a walk happy, wagging their tails. Until they get to "The Room", every one of them freaks out & puts on the brakes when we get to the door. It must smell like death or they can feel the sad souls that are left in there, it's strange, but it happens with every one of them.When it all ends, your pet's corpse will be stacked like firewood in a large freezer in the back with all of the other animals that were killed, waiting to be picked up like garbage.What happens next? Cremated? Taken to the dump? Rendered into pet food? Or used for the schools to dissect & experiment on? You'll never know and it probably won't even cross your mind. It was just an animal and you can always buy another one, right?I hope that those of you who still have a beating heart & have read this are bawling your eyes out & can't get the pictures out of your head, I deal w/ this everyday. I hate my job, I hate that it exists & I hate that it will always be there unless you people make some changes & start educating the public. Do research, do your homework & know exactly what you are getting into before getting a pet.These shelters & humane societies exist because people just do not care about animals anymore. Animals were not intended to be disposable but somehow that is what they are these days. Animal shelters are an easy way out when you get tired of your animal & breeders are the ones blamed for this. Animal shelters & rescue orgs are making a hefty profit by keeping this misconception going.Between 9 & 11 MILLION animals die every year in shelters (Humane Society of the US estimates 3-4 million) & only you - as a pet owner can stop it. I just hope I maybe changed one persons mind about taking their dog to a shelter, a humane society, or buying a dog without researching. For those of you that care--- please re-post this to at least one other Craigslist in another city/state. Let's see if we can get this all around the US and have an impact.THINK before your selfishness begins to take over.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:16 PM
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britmichele
by on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:18 PM
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wayyyyyy too long

But here's a sympathy bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:21 PM
It is worth the read though. Thanks


Quoting britmichele:

wayyyyyy too long



But here's a sympathy bump

CheetahLove.81
by on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:23 PM
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Heartbreaking :"( , but so true .... This is the reason we get our dogs from shelters
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babygirl4326
by Silver Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:24 PM

BUMP!

livric
by Gold Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:24 PM
:'(
crzy4mc
by Bronze Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:25 PM
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Tnks for the depressing post.
greenlove2013
by Platinum Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:25 PM
I had to surrender my 2 dogs to a shelter. It was a no kill shelter though
mushki
by on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:26 PM
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It is so sad! I can see why this topic makes you so upset. I had to give up my two girls before. One kitty went to a friend and is still there and the other to a no kill program that sent the animals to homes before they were adopted. So I kept her and when I took her in a house was lined up. I hope she is ok. I didn't want to give my babies up but I had to do it for my real baby. I got a puppy later down the line from animal control. Poor thing had been taken in, adopted, and dropped back off there in his 3 months of life. I took him home and three days later he showed signs of parvo that they said was going around the pound. They said I could take him back and they'd take care of it. I was going to do that until it was explained to naive little me that they would kill him and give me another dog. No! I begged my brother in law for the $300 because he is just like me with animals and brought my puppy back home weighing only 6 pounds from 12 a week later. A week after that I paid him back but if he hadn't helped my dog would've died. He's the best person for doing that!

Just wanted to share my shelter story. I love my puppy so much! Oh, they said he was part chow and it is the farthest breed from what he actually is. They went by black on his gums and my toy breed dog got labeled as a bully breed at the shelter as a puppy. Poor dog is so lucky!

.strawberry.
by Gold Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:26 PM

Thank you for posting this.

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 5, 2013 at 11:26 PM
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It might be helpful to say dead animals in your title. I recently had to put my beloved cat of 10 years down and the last thing I wanted to see was a dead cat that looked like my girl
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