I have a roommate staying with me until she can find a house to rent. She is going through a divorce. Well anyways her 4 year old is so disrespectful an doesnt listen and back talks. Now i know the gruesome history and i know this 4yr old has been through more than some adults. So i do know sone of this is her acting out because her attitude is the only thing she can controle. Im trying to be patient with her learning the house rules. Her mom is trying to work with her, but my patience have run thin and the way this child is speaking to her mother, my kids would have been popped. She beeds councelling to help deal with her past, but the soon to be ex has cancelled the insurance on her an so now my roommate is trying to get her on the state insurance but doesnt have the needed documents on hand that they are telling her she needs.