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I'm giving my son condoms around the age of 13

Posted by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:44 AM
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I plan on it.

What age do you think you'll give your kids contraceptives?


So some people have a hard time with this. Let me clarify...
I won't be shoving condoms in my sons face, and then walk away lol (I really didn't think I had to say that, but I guess I do)
I will explain to him to importance of abstainace and the benefits of not indulging in the act until he's ready. I will teach my child morals, and self respect. BUT I'm not naive, and if anything does happen, ill open the lines of communication to make him feel comfortable in coming to me and talking about any feelings he might have.

Who's to say this will really go down when he's 13, but right now I know kids are having sex and I'd much rather keep him protected than to act like I know for a fact that it won't happen.
I'm just a scared mom who didn't want her baby to grow up too fast. I do my best with him, and I do a damn good job.

Some of you were way too rude to me for no reason, and I would appreciate it if you would at least ask questions before jumping down my throat. My opinion may not be your opinion, but it didn't mean you're right and I'm wrong.

I hope I cleared some things up.
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mlg1989
by ZombieMegg on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:45 AM
I dont even want to think about that with him being 4.
Ill approach the subject when he gets closer to puberty, there is no way I would just GIVE him condoms, I will be having the talk with him though.
owl0210
by Emerald Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:45 AM
Oh god I can't even thing about that lol. I would probably say around 16.
couture-mommy
by Ruby Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:47 AM
Oh yeah. We will have the talk and ill give him them then.
Lol it is hard to think about. Especially since I'm still wiping his little tush lol


Quoting mlg1989:

I dont even want to think about that with him being 4.

Ill approach the subject when he gets closer to puberty, there is no way I would just GIVE him condoms, I will be having the talk with him though.

couture-mommy
by Ruby Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:48 AM
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Its hard isn't it? Lol.



Quoting owl0210:

Oh god I can't even thing about that lol. I would probably say around 16.

Bertha21
by Platinum Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:49 AM
Idk, my husband will hopefully deal with that. I don't want to think of that.
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by Anonymous on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:51 AM
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I'll know when them time is near. Right now he's only 6 so I don't even want to think about that.
JamesMom714
by Platinum Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:51 AM
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couture-mommy
by Ruby Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:51 AM
Lmao yeah.
Hopefully mine will too. I know boys don't like talking about stuff like that with their moms


Quoting Bertha21:

Idk, my husband will hopefully deal with that. I don't want to think of that.

couture-mommy
by Ruby Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:52 AM
Really?
Why so late (I'm not bashing, just curious=)


Quoting JamesMom714:

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owl0210
by Emerald Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 11:53 AM
Yes he's only 3 yrs old :(

Quoting couture-mommy:

Its hard isn't it? Lol.






Quoting owl0210:

Oh god I can't even thing about that lol. I would probably say around 16.

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