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Would you stop your bc without telling your dh?

Anonymous
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Would you ever stop taking your bc to get pregnant without telling your husband?

my husband wants a baby but freaks out at the thought he way over thinks things. So he told me to stop my bc but to not tell him. That seems a little silly because he knows I'm going to stop ASAP so what's the point on not telling him then?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:38 PM
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peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:38 PM

absolutely not

talk about a violation of trust

usmcwifey11
by Platinum Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:39 PM
Nope.
fallenstars
by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:39 PM
I've wander to but would NEVER
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:39 PM

But how is it a violation if he told you to stop? He just doesn't want to know when


Quoting peanutsmommy1:

absolutely not

talk about a violation of trust



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:39 PM
No. Forcing someone to have a kidvagainst their will is tantamount to forving someone to hav3 an abortion
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:40 PM
I did. We have a 2 yr old now
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:40 PM

How is it forcing if he told you to stop taking your bc?


Quoting Anonymous:

No. Forcing someone to have a kidvagainst their will is tantamount to forving someone to hav3 an abortion



Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Ruby Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:41 PM

Well, it's different since he gave you permission.

But I wouldn't let my DH cop out like  that.  He's either on board and committed with me, or we're not having another baby.

I guess my concern would be if something went wrong or he changed his mind AFTER you were pregnant, he'd blame the whole thing on you because he never decided, kwim?  It's his way of passing off the responsibility of what should be a mutual decision.

Caitwald24
by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:41 PM
I wouldn't but he's asking you I do it? That's odd!
EAzizM
by Erica on Nov. 7, 2013 at 1:41 PM
Hell no. That is betrayal.
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