My bf and i were having a discussion abut his family. He was warning me abut their quirks since i haven't met then yet.. His family is fairly strict and stressed to him that he needs to carry on their blood. I figure any children he has would be his blood, so i didn't get why he was even telling me. What it boils down to is that they do not believe in dating outside their race. I'm biracial, my ex husband is black, i have a child from him. Bf is Irish.
So i asked if we had gotten together before him and his ex.- they have two kids -.if he would have had kids with me. He hesitated, but said yes,.then told me that even if he wanted more kids he wouldn't have them with me because I've already had a child with another man. I was appalled. Him telling me that makes me feel like I'm just not worthy.. Like I'm less of a person because I've already had a child with my ex husband.
Am i crazy to be upset?