Eta: the dog is just very protective of dd. She's been around since dd was a little baby..but yes this is a regular day for us and to be honest I did give her a couple swats on the butt when she wouldn't stay in time-out. She just laughs when I do that. And I didn't think that sentence was very complex..she is almost three and she talks like crazy all the time. And she is in preschool for social development. I thought it would help, since she is always around adults...but it hasn't.
Eta2: You guys! I am sooo not bullshitting any of you, as much as I wish I were. I'm really seriously starting to worry about dd. My mother and other family members have told me that I am very consistent and I do everything right. People keep telling me it is just her personality. She has been naughty in any way ever since she has learned to express herself. As for the dog, that one part was unusual for the dog. She is protective of dd, but she has always listened to me and she follows me everywhere. She is usually a very good dog..so after I posted this..I tried to keep her in her room and I stood at her door with my back turned so I wouldn't give her any attention when she was acting like that. She kept saying I was mean and laughing and kept trying to get out. She finally gave up after an hour and went to bed at around midnight. I am so consistent with her. I have to be. I refuse to raise another disrespectful person in this world..theres enough of those. I seriously need legit advice on this. Im really getting worried..