My ex boyfriend, the ne I had before I met my sons father, always stay in touch with me. Then I had my baby and I got busy and didn't engage much in texting him or calling him but then my husband passed and my ex ended up bent there for my son.
my son calls him uncle and he is the only man he has seen for the last 2 years. Well back in December I got an email from his girlfriend telling me that she was aware he was seeing me and that she wanted me to stop contact with him. There is no and there has never been any physical contact him with him. He basically plays with my son or go out for lunch. But I understood her feelings and I told him to make her happy. Time went by and he called me to see my son for his birthday and I allowed him to come in and he told me that he was not with this girl anymore and he was just working and trying to look for a happier life. So I allowed hm to start spending more time with my son again and for me it is also a way of having adult conversations. We were having dinner at a restaurant and he let my child watch a video on his phone when his girlfriend called him.he changed his mood for te rest of the dinner. When we got home, thank god it was across from our home, I told him to go back to her and not cause problems in my life.
i am so tempted to tell her everything he said about her...