Its just really strange to me... (Btw the names have been changed). Anyways I know its not a big deal but I just wonder why? So my dh only has a dad his mom passed away 3months after i met him so i never got the chance to meet her. His mom died at 56 from cancer thats what he told me. And his dad i dont remeber his age but hes in his 60's probally in the end. So anyways with time years later me and dh fell in love and got married. I only met his brother and father this whole time since he told me all his family lives in other states and some are close but he doesnt really get along with. He doesnt even really get along with his father but i got to meet him anyways. So i remember when i was pregnant we would often go to his dads house. So his dad woukd talk to me but dh wouldnt say anything. So FIL talks about their family ( im happy to hear more since my dh nEVER talks about them) so he says that his my dh has a brother and sister( sister lives in another state dh already had told me) and he says that my child will be his third grandchild since BIL already has one son and one dd named tyra and julian(dh never told me he had kids). So im like oh thats nice how old are they. Fil says 12 and 9 and he shows me a picture of the "son". He says this is julian. So anways my i gave birth to my dd who is now 8months and i saw his bil last week he came to see dd for the first time. He tells me he has 2 daughters named carla and ciara. Im thinking: so who the hell is julian or tyra? Bil name isnt even julian either. Anyways this was strange. His sister doesnt even have kids either. I dont know if his dad has memory problems or something since he is getting old or because this family is just hiding stuff. Its like they mix up family member names and ages or they just dont talk about each other. Thry never get together for christmas, thanksgiving nothing. I baptizied my dd last month and nobody came dh didnt even want to invite them. And he usually has a good relationship with his brother. I dont know im confused. What is happening here?