My sister and been clean and sober for 4 years she has a 7y/o and sister and her new wife started using together. Well I went off and said I don't want her wife at thanksgiving. I feel bad but I am mad my sister is using especially around her d.d. my dad is happy I told her not to come because he still has not accepted that his daughter is a lesbo. Anyways my niece and sister are welcome. Any advice?????