**backstory** so my friend had a birthday in the beginning of october. she had dinner with her husband and a few other friends. well i let her know that day that i couldn't come because my dd had a last minute dr appointment, and i had to baby-sit at the last minute also. by the time i was done baby-sitting and actually made it home from picking my dh up, there was no way i was going to be able to make her dinner because it is a good 40ish minute drive from my house. the dinner was at 6:30 and i didn't actually get home until about 5:15 that day and had to unpack groceries. when i told her that i couldn't make it, i also told her to let me know when she was off work next and she could come over and i would make her dinner and some cupcakes.
**fast forward to now** after not hearing from her since then (because i assume she got pissed at me and didn't want to talk or hang out with me), she messages me today asking 'what are you doing today?' and she usually only asks me that when she wants to hang out. the only problem is, i don't want to hang out with her because of how she acted towards me. she got mad at me for something i had no control over, and chose to act like a high schooler and ignore me until she finally wants to do something with me. this woman is 23 years old and married...it really pissed me off that she chooses to act like that. i apologized for not being able to make it and even offered to cook for her on her next day off. it's not like i just said 'happy bday. can't make it..' and that was it..i actually attempted to make an effort to make up for not being able to make her dinner. and i know she hasn't just been 'too busy' to hang out because i've seen her post about hanging out with other people on facebook. we weren't really close friends to begin with, but i was her maid of honor at her wedding, helped plan her wedding and bridal shower, and i was even there for her when she had issues with her husband because she cheated on him and he was pissed at her. it just makes me upset that she ignores me for something so small that i had no control over..things happen, and i think i made the best of it. what would you have done?