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Would you be mad?

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8 days ago I asked df if he could watch the kids while I do something between 5:30pm and 8:30pm TODAY. He said sure. Well here comes today and I reminded him that he needed to be home at 5 so I can go. He said he forgot and asked me why didn't I remind him sooner. I told him it's not my responsibility to remind him of things to do (he also says I should remind him of his own appointments). He never writes anything on the callendar and expects me to remind him of everything. I told him I'm not his mom and he needs to remind himself of these things. So anyways, he made plans with someone else AFTER I asked him to watch the kids. So he said he couldn't watch them because I didn't remind him and he's going to do his other plans.

Would you be mad?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:42 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:46 PM

bump

onethentwins
by Platinum Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:48 PM
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Yes I'd be furious. His wife should come way above the other person he made plans with. He needs to call them and cancel his new plans. Husbands need to be reliable and treat their wives well. 

Bonnie2HisCLYDE
by Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:49 PM
Nope..I'd BE LIVID >:0\
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catherine_b
by Bronze Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:50 PM
To say I'd be pissed would be an understatement.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:50 PM

I'd be mad, but I agree that you should've reminded him yesterday. And maybe the day before.

JackieGirl007
by Platinum Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:51 PM

 If he was a real man, he would cancel the plans he made in order to keep his word.

fairyjester
by Ruby Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:51 PM
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i would be beyond pissed. 

and would also be  wondering why i was planning on marrying a child.

davnrori
by Gold Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:51 PM

 Do you guys live together? Are the kids his and your kids together or just your kids?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:51 PM

Very mad.

He would be crucified if he went through with those plans. lol

bcauseimthemom
by Ruby Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 1:52 PM

If he is their father, his ass would be cancelling his plans unless they are work related, and he would be parenting his own children.  You shouldn't have to ASK him to parent his own kids...  FFS... if he refuses, I would let him know it is up to him to hire and pay a sitter for the evening.....

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