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BIG UPDATE - mystery solved but I'm still confused... what would you think if you got this message? *pic* SMALL update

Posted by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:50 AM
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A little background - I have an 8 year old dd. Her dad and I split 3 1/2 years ago. 6 months ago we (dh, myself & the kids) moved from nm to Oklahoma. Ex wanted to keep custody arrangements out of court so we worked things out between us. Dd calls her dad almost every night.
We have always managed to keep things fairly cordial and the majority of the time, even friendly. So, imagine my surprise when I wake up at 4:30am and see this fb message on my phone. As you can see from the pic, the last time I had ANY conversation with him was Halloween when I sent him pics of dd trick or treating.
So, what would you think if it were you? I'm completely confused.

Update - not much of an update really. It seems he's avoiding me now. I replied to the fb message, texted & called him (twice) - no reply. He didn't call dd tonight either... but, I was confused by his use of the term "femanonimity" I figured it was a slang word of some sort. Tried to google it and didn't get much result. Not sure if its a typo or there's some hidden meaning...

UPDATE 2! Ok, well he called me. Apparently, he was on a porn site a while back and found pics of me. From up to 8 years ago, until as recently as about 3 years ago. Not sure what to think.... eta: I have NEVER taken nude pics or videos of myself nor knowingly let anyone do so.
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:50 AM
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scoleman828
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:51 AM

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Mrs-Somerhalder
by Blake on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:52 AM
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Maybe he sent it to the wrong person

dlnimo
by Gold Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:52 AM
Maybe it was sent to you by mistake?
MIA0223
by Emerald Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:53 AM
Call him, ask!
That is very strange!
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beaularson91
by Ruby Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:53 AM
Well, that's weird.

I'd just ask him what the heck he's talking about.
EntrepeneurMom
by The Major on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:53 AM
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He sounds high as a kite...
scoleman828
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:53 AM
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That's what I'm guessing....

Quoting Mrs-Somerhalder:

Maybe he sent it to the wrong person

suzanneyea
by Ruby Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:54 AM

Just call him and ask what is going on if you really have no idea.

leota29
by Silver Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:54 AM
Sent the message to the wrong person? Idk.....
Sunshine257
by Ruby Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 5:54 AM
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I am confused.. What is the problem? I am still waking up.
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