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He really hurt my feelings

Anonymous
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I am 3 months pregnant and I have not had a sex drive at all. On top of that I have been severely fatigued. I just want to sleep all the time. Of course I can t until after the kids go to bed every night. I usually finally get to lay down around 10. Well my SO will either come home late or he will stay downstairs on the Xbox until much later every night.

When he finally comes up to bed, he'll try to wake me up for sex. Well, I can't get myself to bc I am seriously that tired and I don't feel like it.

Last night he makes a comment to me that really hurt my feelings. He said: "I've been with better that I didn't even have to beg for".

And I just shot back: "well then go get it"

I rolled over and started crying. Then he tried playing it off like he was joking. But I'm no idiot....

He then started asking if it was because I'm pregnant and if I even loved him. And I just couldn't get any words out. I managed to tell him it's because I'm pregnant.

But man.. today I am still so hurt. I don't want to have sex with him again. Now every time all I will think about is how I'm not that "good".
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:08 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:09 AM
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Melissa_4
by Ruby Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:09 AM
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Get over it and realize your hormones are messing with your head.

SaraW1989
by on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:10 AM

It's really not all about you. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:10 AM
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I would have told him to leave after that comment. That was a mean and ugly thing to say and  I would tell him he go  get it and leave me alone.

Than, I would make sure I would go for all the CS I could get. Yeah, I am a BITCH!

TG3
by Silver Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:10 AM

yeah he was out of line.

arpazia
by Platinum Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:11 AM
What an ass face thing to say.
He was mad and his goal was to hurt you.

I hope you feel better:(
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JulyBabies
by Gold Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:11 AM

It's not right but sometimes when people are upset, they go for the jugular and say the most hurtful things even though they don't mean it. Don't obsess over this. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:11 AM
Please explain what you mean by this?


Quoting SaraW1989:

It's really not all about you. 


owl0210
by Emerald Member on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:12 AM
He's an asshole.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 12, 2013 at 10:12 AM
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So him basically telling her she's shit in bed and then wanting to know if she still loves him isn't him making it all about himself?


Quoting SaraW1989:

It's really not all about you. 



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