UPDATE~ think I have finally come to the conclusion
After contemplating for nearly a year, I've decided on what vehicle I want.
I think I want a 2014 Honda Odyssey Touring Elite
It has video for reversing and for turning/changing lanes so you can see the blind spots. So cool.
It seats 8. The seats stow easily. Seat warmers. All leather. I'm in love.
Update~ I ended up purchasing the Ex-L. I decided that I didn't need all of the extras. They also gave us a great deal on the Ex-L because they needed to move some of the inventory. Either way, I have a brand new 2014 Odyssey!