Have you ever felt this way about a pregnancy? Or have you always fallen in love right away?
My first pregnancy I didn't want to have a baby and I did have a miscarriage..I've regretted thinking about it every day.
This pregnancy,I knew before I even found out and have been in love since the thought crossed my mind.
Some days though,I do not enjoy it..
Yes, both with my now 12 year old, and with this pregnancy. I hate being pregnant. At the beginning I wished I'd miscarry. I don't like this baby, and there are days where I hate him. I don't love him or feel attached. I know my feelings will probably change when he's born, but right now, this is how I feel.
Then maybe you should rethink your choice wether to keep or abort/adopt.. If you want to be a mom then you would know it .. imo .. hope your feelings change soon if you do decide to keep baby ..
SO sorry you're going through such a rough time. :( I hope things get better for you.
Quoting jojo_star:Yes, both with my now 12 year old, and with this pregnancy. I hate being pregnant. At the beginning I wished I'd miscarry. I don't like this baby, and there are days where I hate him. I don't love him or feel attached. I know my feelings will probably change when he's born, but right now, this is how I feel.
I did briefly with my son. And by briefly, I meant from pretty early on till about 30 weeks or so.
absolutely not. ds was "unexpected" and it definitely took me a while to really warm up to the idea or w/e but i have never, ever wished to miscarry. how horrible.
I wished I miscarried at the beginning of my last pregnancy which was to become child number 3. I became pregnant in June 2010. I already had a boy turning 1 the month I became pregnant and a girl that was 2 but turning 3 the next month. I was so sick in the beginning that I wished the pregnancy would just go away...I couldn't take care of child 1 and 2. My mother in law took them a lot while I just curled in a ball in bed. But I'm glad now for the way things worked out, that number 3 child is two years old now and he's just a living, breathing little doll. He's so precious...love him. I just don't do pregnancy well.
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