My SO lives a half a mile down the road. When my mom is home we stay with him, unless it's a school night then only the little ones stay with him and I go over after the older is at school. Also some nights the kids go there just to hang out with him even if I don't go.
I clean both houses and do the laundry for both houses and most of the cooking for both houses. I'm sure you can tell by now I don't work a lot.
So here's the issue. I applied for a full time job that pays double what I make now. I can still take the oldest to school and I would be home shortly after she got off the bus. This job comes with benefits and paid vacation and sick leave. Everyone is flipping the hell out. SO is flipping out that the younger ones will have to go to daycare. My mom is flipping out in general over everything that won't get done if I am working 40 hours instead of 16.
Do I go for it anyway and just tell them to get over it and adjust. Or pull my application and continue what we are doing?