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My DD came home with hickeys!

Anonymous
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My DD was at her dads house and apparently he let her bf spend the night. I didnt know until today when I noticed she had hickeys all over her neck! I just cant believe her dad would let that happen. She is 16 and there really is no reason for her bf and her to be having sleepover. I am furious!

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:13 PM
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JZB
by Gold Member on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:14 PM
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His house his rules, get her on bc
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:18 PM
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She is on birth control. I feel unsupervised coed sleepovers should be discussed beforehand. 

Quoting JZB:

His house his rules, get her on bc



AnastasiaKorsh
by on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:20 PM
obviously your ex didn't feel the same.

Talk to him and see where he stands on the issue. Tell him where you stand and hopefully you can come to a compromise.


Quoting Anonymous:


She is on birth control. I feel unsupervised coed sleepovers should be discussed beforehand. 


Quoting JZB:

His house his rules, get her on bc




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:22 PM

We have talked about it a few months ago when it came up (my dd asked if her bf could spend the night here) I said no her dad agreed. i dont know what has changed and he refuses to talk to me about it. 

Quoting AnastasiaKorsh:

obviously your ex didn't feel the same.

Talk to him and see where he stands on the issue. Tell him where you stand and hopefully you can come to a compromise.


Quoting Anonymous:now


She is on birth control. I feel unsupervised coed sleepovers should be discussed beforehand. 


Quoting JZB:

His house his rules, get her on bc






katemckenzie
by Kate on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:22 PM

Not sure if there's anything you can do except take it up with the courts.

mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:23 PM
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I don't agree with "his house his rules" bullshit when it comes to serious issues such as this.


Talk to her dad. That is simply not acceptable
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:24 PM


Well I have full custody so there is no need to do that. If my ex is going to let her do that she wont go over there. She is still a minor and shouldnt be having sleep over with a boy. They just started dating not too long ago. 

Quoting katemckenzie:

Not sure if there's anything you can do except take it up with the courts.



sfigu16
by Platinum Member on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:24 PM

Ouch

that is a tough dude

How about having a talk with your daughter about sex and consequences. I am not saying she will get pregnant but have the communication line open.. 

Hickeys are not classy..tell her i said that lol

AnastasiaKorsh
by on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:25 PM
Well, then maybe the better way to approach this is taking to your daughter about it. Otherwise, I don't know how much you can do.

Quoting Anonymous:

We have talked about it a few months ago when it came up (my dd asked if her bf could spend the night here) I said no her dad agreed. i dont know what has changed and he refuses to talk to me about it. 


Quoting AnastasiaKorsh:

obviously your ex didn't feel the same.



Talk to him and see where he stands on the issue. Tell him where you stand and hopefully you can come to a compromise.




Quoting Anonymous:now


She is on birth control. I feel unsupervised coed sleepovers should be discussed beforehand. 



Quoting JZB:

His house his rules, get her on bc








malibucj
by Platinum Member on Nov. 16, 2013 at 7:26 PM

Do you both have legal custody or just you?

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