i have a horrible confession. my husband is adament about not wanting a baby. he doesnt have any and doesnt want any. my confession is....i havent been using birth control for almost 7 months. he thinks i have been but i havent. i feel horrible. he is just so hard headed about having a baby and i thought if it just happened he would love it. the thing is i havent gotten pregnant once this whole time. i have kids he doesnt. now im wondering if he can even have kids. i cant mention anything to him about something maybe being wrong with him because he thinks we have been using birth control this whole time. before anyone says it; i kow im horrible.