She has been horrible this last year and it is driving me nuts. She was caught sneaking alcohol into the house, she was caught with drugs, she doesnt listen or follow any rules. I have tried to talk to her to get her to tell me what is going on with her because this is all knew. Before she turned 18 she was pretty much the perfect kid but now she has the "I am almost an adult I will do what I want" attitude. I have put her on total lockdown, taken away everything and she still acts out. As soon as she is 19 and I can I am kicking her out!
ETA: if I could kick her out now I would. But I can't I have to wait until she is 19
ETA2; The age of majority here is 19. She is not yet an adult which is why I haven't kicked her out yet