My sister has been living with us for a while now, and the ONLY rule i gave her was no drugs in the house.
Well, i busted my ankle today because i'm a dipshit, so i already was in pain and not feeling too good. I laid on the couch after DH left for work, just watching tv, when i started smelling something skunky.
we can loose our apartment for her doing that shit.
So, i went to knock on her door, I was just going to talk to her and tell her get it out of the house, and don't do it in here again. Reasonable reaction with a toddler sleeping in the next room, right?
Well she flat refused to even open the door, because she knew she was in deep shit. So i told her if she didnt open the door to talk to me, I was calling the cops. She still didn't, so I called. Cop showed up and talked to me and to her, and then said there wasn't anything he could really do... so i went back to her room and told her let him search your room.
she started screaming at me 'no no this is my room!' and so i went in and started digging through shit myself. I found a bottle of pills, and i was like wtf is this?! then i went to go toward her closet, and she flipped out, smacking me and shoving me, clawing at my face like a frickin high school brawler, so i grabbed her shoulder, and i flipped her onto her back. She landed on her ass and was going to get up and come after me more, but the cop got in between us and asked me to leave the room.
I did. Five or ten minutes later he hauled her off to jail.
There is now a statute against her that for 6 months she can't contact me, or come back to this apartment.
I don't really know how i feel about all of this now... the adrenaline is still going pretty strong... and I am kind of between crying feeling like an asshole, and feeling like i did the right thing to protect my family.
She will be in the county holding until thursday, and then if her friends mom can bail her out, they are going to. Their decision, but i think she needs to stay there and learn something from this whole thing besides that she can get away with it because people will always be there to bail her ass out.