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idk what to think of this text...to the dumbsh!#$ who keep assuming

Anonymous
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I missed my period and now three weeks past i realize, wow, I'm probably pregnant.

So i tell my bf and he really wanted to deal with it and i was in denial.

He bothered me so much about it that i just stopped responding to anything about the topic and stopped visiting, i flaked, didn't call, haven't answered, nothing for the last three days. Needless to say, i shut down when i feel deep emotions, similar to how many men withdraw, i withdraw too.

Well i went to text my boyfriend about going in and testing and i got an automated response that said...

"you are emotionally overwhelmed & because you shut down, i have too. I'm taking my space.
You won."



********** I don't deal with pregnancies well.  I have had multiple miscarriages with this man.  Multiple scares, after a while, I just stopped caring to see if I was pregnant, would go do a hormone panel, find out I am, would go back and find out I'm not anymore.  I'm over it.  Thats why I wait to see a doctor now, because I don't fucking care anymore to get all excited about nothing. 

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:21 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:22 AM
Every text i send had the same automated response
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:24 AM
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Well what do you expect? You should've acted like an adult.
caligirl7613
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:25 AM
well now u know how it feels. give him his space.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:27 AM
I don't mind that he needs space but he has never asked for space and this isn't an issue that disappears.

And he basically blocked me by filtering me to an auto text

Quoting caligirl7613:

well now u know how it feels. give him his space.
NBean311
by Chivette on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:27 AM
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You created a child together. You should've respected him enough to let him know that you needed a couple days to process. I don't blame him for shutting you out. 

It sounds like you both need to learn to communicate. 

krazymom2boyz
by Silver Member on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:27 AM
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I would send him an apology for shutting down, promise to give him space and hope for the best. Good luck.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:28 AM

 I guess I dont understand what you are needing right now.... it seems pretty self explanatory to me. He needs his space. He tried to talk to you and you shut him out, now he needs time to figure it all out.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:29 AM
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 you are right, it doesn't. So why get upset when all he did was exactly what you did?

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't mind that he needs space but he has never asked for space and this isn't an issue that disappears.

And he basically blocked me by filtering me to an auto text

Quoting caligirl7613:

well now u know how it feels. give him his space.

 

caligirl7613
by Platinum Member on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:30 AM
from what i read you didnt exactly ask for space or even inform him you needed it.....u just fell off the radar. whats good for th goose is good for the gander......

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't mind that he needs space but he has never asked for space and this isn't an issue that disappears.



And he basically blocked me by filtering me to an auto text



Quoting caligirl7613:

well now u know how it feels. give him his space.
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mom2theA-team
by Gold Member on Nov. 18, 2013 at 4:32 AM

You kind of had that coming. 

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