This didn't happen to me, but my neighbor, she is called up by a mutual friend, (not someone she actually knows, but has met in passing a time or two) and asked if she would be willing to watch that persons kiddo before/after school. She politely declined and said she doesn't do home daycare anymore, she is concentrating on college and is trying to graduate before her 3rd kiddo is born in the spring.
Well, apparently that wasn't the right answer, now this mutual friend is being a total ass, has cussed her out repeatedly, is constantly texting her, calling her and being a bitch. My neighbor is refusing to go to the girls chain of command (military) because she doesn't want anyone to get in trouble. I told her that there comes a point that you HAVE to get the person in trouble for them to understand fully that they are in the wrong. Especially if they are ignorant like this girl...
My poor neighbor has been to the ER twice with stress related complications, so on the second time I told her husband to go to the girls command and let them know what the hell is going on. He had no clue!!! She never even told him because she didn't want anyone to get in trouble!! Holy crap there is being nice then there is being a damn door mat!! So anyways he did, and I guess you could say this was the proverbial straw, cause she got paperwork over it (harassment) and on top of all the paperwork she has gotten in the past, her command said "enough" and they are giving her her walking papers (general under honorable). Now my neighbor is mad at me for telling her husband.. and she is blaming herself for the girl getting kicked out... WTF martyr much?!??! I give up.. we move in 6-8 months... I am over it, but
Do you think I did the right thing telling her husband??
For those saying "that was between her and her huband" she TOLD ME she told him, so when I advised he go to the other girls frist sergeant it was under the assumption he knew!!! I didn't know she hadn't told him