I took the phone and waited for her to come home. When she came in, I asked her to sit at the kitchen table with me. She saw her phone on the table and I asked if there was anything she wanted to tell me. She said no and I told her what I did. She threw a bitch fit and I told her I pay for her car, I pay for her cellphone, I pay for everything but if she's going to sneak around with some guy, she can start paying for it. She's been pissed at me since.
This is what happened to me last night. She told me they'd been "talking" since she turned 17 (legal age here) and that's been over 9 months. I don't want her to get hurt, especially since this is the only boyfriend she's ever had.
Should I continue with the making her pay for her things? I feel if she's going to disrespect my wishes, she can do it on her own dime.