not because you gained weight, or because you didn't give them a bj.
Scumbags cheat bj's or not.
Dogs cheat with hot wives or frumpy ones.
Great guys love their wives, 5 lbs or 50, bj's or not. Good times and bad.
I hope those of you who don't have great guys, don't accept less for any reason. And I hope those (like me) who have great guys give them a hug and are thankful for them.
Married for 14 years and still madly in love!