The backlash? She's tried to get little boys to get naked, kissing her cousins, trying to touch her sisters that lived with her at her moms. We've caught her using foreign objects and have to remove anything that may give her internet access because she will steal phones, sneak on computer and try to watch porn. Not just any porn, abusive porn, lesbian rape porn (her abuser also had her sister involved) and anal porn. She says when she thinks of her abuser it makes her want to touch herself.
Her therapist said we are supposed to tell her that touching herself is OK and touching is a pleasurable experience, but how are we supposed to explain that to a child who gets turned on by thinking about being abused.
We are having difficulties with inappropriate notes beingppassed to classmates, tickling being an excuse to touch other kids, etc.its terrifying and I don't know what to do about it anymore.
And yes we have anything with internet on lockdown. But this kid is sneaky. We have to lock our phones in our bedroom or keep them in our hands at all times.. All the computers have been parental controlled and password protected. She will wait for someone to leave something unattended for a second and then run off with it. Its out of control!!!!!.