My dh thinks I'm gross because during the night when I get up to pee I don't flush. I'm pregnant & I pee several times during the night & don't find it nessisary. It's a waste of water for one & two it's our master bathroom. I'm usually up before him so I will flush before he sees but if he gets there first he gets all grossed out. I'm not leaving poop in the toilet I don't see the big deal?