Quoting paulswifey11:I don't think its everytime. There are some on here that act that way though.
There is no such thing as EQUAL.
Because we are women and we are to love all children as if they are our own.
I have a step daughter, but I don't love or treat as if she's mine. Because of circumstances I barely know her. And honestly from what little contact I had with her as a child (she's 19 now) I didn't really like her. Now it's a different story.
I have to say, I am not fond of my son's sm, but I know she loves him and treats him like her own. (Which is part of the problem, I believe she is at times borderline verbally abusive with all of the.)
But, his dad intervenes when needed and she's ok most the time.
Wow. Your ex must be a terrible dad to have married you.
Quoting SaraW1989:I don't know. I made it very clear with my ex from the get go that his child wasn't mine and wouldn't never be treated as such by me or my family. I accosted his kid into our lives as a step child. Nothing more.
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