He's a good dad and I hate the thought of the kids only having him in there life part time.
Sometimes I think about staying together and toughing it out but I worry the kids might pick up on our sadness. we don't fight or argue in front of them mostly we ignore each other if we do argue it's after there in bed and we are typically in our room discussing things quietly.
The third option would be for us to be in an open relationship and be free to see who ever but stay in the marriage for the sake of the kids but this is out of character for me. I don't like the idea of it but also don't like the idea of not having anyone in my life for me for the next 18 years.
Idk what's right to do