Dh and I have been together for 9 years. Married for 6. I have 3 kids, which 2 are his. I love him but I hate how he is. Always grumpy(he lives on medicine) due to a neck problem. He works at a very hands on job. Lifting 50plus pounds for his whole shift. So I give him credit for being a grump. But it's getting old. We don't have anything in common. Besides the kids. He is a good dad. But i wouldn't say a very good husband. He is always negative. We barley talk and if we do its about his job. I don't want to give up on our marriage. I want to go to counseling but our work hours do not allow it. I wish there was a weekend appointment. Honestly he does not express his feelings.:( I feel like were together for the kids and the house. He told me a year ago he did not love me. So I started looking for a new place to live and right before i signed the papers he told me he was sorry and he does love me. I am scared to be a single mom of 3. They are all in sports and still pretty young. I want them to have a family. We don't fight and he does not hit me. So it's basically our lack of communication and his lack of expressing his feelings :( anyone going through this or have??? I do love him buy not like i use to.