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Should I message her. UPDATE

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Okay I've been sleeping with my ex (from high school) for about 3 months. We happened to run into each other about 5 months ago at sports bar.

So today I'm sitting around bored to tears and decide to Facebook creep. I really don't like Facebook and only have like 40 friends all close friends and family. Anyway I look up his name and see he's married to (her name) no big deal. He told me he was separated. So I click on her page being nosy and she's pregnant!! Not to mention her profile pic is at her baby shower with him uploaded 3 days ago!! Wtf?? I'm so mad!

So now I'm trying to decide if I should email her or message him? Should I just ask him?? Because now I look like a stalker and that wasn't my intention


So I basically just messaged him and said "congrats on the new addition to your family!👶🎉"


UPDATE he messaged me back! He said "I'm really sorry Katy. It's not as bad as it seems we can talk about it later in person ok"
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:32 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:34 AM
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If they put it on the internet for everyone to see you're not stalking
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:35 AM
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Lol. Maybe you should just stop sleeping with married men.
thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:36 AM
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No, but you should end all contact with him.
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vegaswife2011
by LMAO on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:36 AM
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Walk away from the entire situtation. 

luckysevenwow
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:36 AM
Stop sleeping with a married man, and move on.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:36 AM

sigh...

stop talking to him... stop sleeping with him... if you feel compelled to tell her do it after the pregnancy... she doesnt need this shit during a pregnancy.

The_Doodle
by Platinum Member on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:36 AM
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I'd tell her. 

amber_jean101
by Member on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:37 AM

I think you should just let it go and move on...

alexsmomaubrys2
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:37 AM
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Quoting vegaswife2011:

Walk away from the entire situtation. 

And stop sleeping with married men! A man that is "separated" is still MARRIED!

”Nonsense wakes up the brain cells. And it helps develop a sense of humor, which is awfully important in this day and age.” - Dr. Seuss. 

MMIC
by Gold Member on Nov. 20, 2013 at 8:37 AM
Wasn't your intention but you said you decided to be a creepy Facebook stalker " Facebook creep" leave him alone
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