I wrote you back in June about my husbands biological kids, they were the extra bad kids that beat my dog and had no home training. I sent an update but toward the end of the summer we had a problem to big for words and I wasn't ready to be judged for my decision, well its come back to bite me in the butt.
Sit down cause im sure im about to make some people upset.In July my 5 year old nephew (John) came over to spend some time with my husbands boys. Well my husbands family always jokes about his oldest son (Jim 9yr old) saying he's really feminine and is going to be Gay.
We have nothing against Gay people his sister is a Lesbian. Well when (John 5yr old) came over I noticed (Jim 9yr old) was all in his face wouldn't leave him alone. Then (Jim) came and asked me the craziest question. Could he and (John) take a shower together. I knew something was up because I usually have to drag (Jim) to the shower and it was every bit of noon. I told him it was okay but to take his little brother (Joe 5yr old) with him.
Well they get in the shower and my nosy butt is at the door listening to everything. (Jim) tells his little brother to act like a girl, brother asks why and he tells him because boys and girls have sex. At this point im not worried but not moving, he then tells them, Let me show you how to make it grow O_O , im really listing now and he's telling them, No like this feel the bone?
He then tells his brother, Now Kiss It!!! I flew in the bathroom so fast sound waves couldn't keep up, they were all standing in the shower nude with boners, I literally didn't know what to do. His dad of course said it was kids being kids but he's 9 and way past that innocent stage.
I cried and was stressed, I also have a 5y old and a 1y old, I didn't know if I could trust him around the other kids so I sent him to his grandmother for the remainder of the summer which was 2weeks.
I told them to get him help but the grandmother said I was overreacting. Here's the problem.... Thanksgiving Vacation is coming and we will have them, I really don't know what to do.. I haven't seen him since July and I don't want him around the little kids alone, what am I a parent and step mom suppose to do. You can post on fb I would like to know what other parents would do.
SignedCan't Do This $hit
Yes this has been copy and pasted no this is not me but i figure as mothers i want to know how would you all handle this? This is a no no in my book