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Fantasizing and not about DH.

Anonymous
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I feel so guilty about it, but God am I bored. WHEN we have sex, it's fantastic, but it's not often enough. I'm the dude in the relationship, and it blows. He works his ass off and I'm a full time student on top of new parents to a toddler, so we don't have much time for each other. But when we do, we don't go dancing or anything, it's always a redbox movie and Mexican. I love that routine sometimes, but I'm a wild woman! I need excitement! I don't know how to tell him how bored I am! I am head over heels in love with who he is. He's grounded and rational and I am the exact opposite so he always pulls me back down when I need it. Problem is, when we are free, he won't rise to the occasion.

I'm fantasizing about a Sergeant First Class in my unit that I slept with wayyy before I was married and before DD, and I'm so angry at myself about it.

Help! What do I do!!!!
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:44 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:45 AM
its normal.
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:45 AM
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by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:46 AM
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Keep fantasizing, just stop feeling guilty about it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:46 AM
Noooooo. I cannot live like this. I'm beyond frustrated lol. What in earth do you do about being this wound up?! Lol


Quoting Anonymous:

its normal.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:47 AM
I wouldn't if I wasn't so bored though. How do I not feel guilty? Lol


Quoting Anonymous:

Keep fantasizing, just stop feeling guilty about it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:47 AM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:47 AM
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lovinmykiddo07
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:48 AM

haha You pretty much described my SO & myself. But I don't fantasize about men. ::sings Poker Face:: 

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:49 AM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2013 at 1:50 AM
I wish it was women! At least DH wouldn't want to divorce me if I slipped up with a woman! Lol

What do you do about it?


Quoting lovinmykiddo07:

haha You pretty much described my SO & myself. But I don't fantasize about men. ::sings Poker Face:: 


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