worried I'm pregnant despite taking morning after pill? ETA
I made a mistake sun nov 10th and got drunk with a male friend I'd met 2 weeks prior and we had unprotected sex multiple times one night. he texted me the next day to take morning after pill. i did but not until wednesday, so 3 days after unrpotected sex. I didnt experience any vgainal bleeding eyet or nausea. Now I lately feel hot sometimes, almsot feverish. but normal temp but slightly higher than usual (98. 4 instead of 96.7). I am also experiencing a stuffed nose and more sneezes out of nowhere and then they go away which i dont usually have. my lwoer back aches and it feels like I'm going to start my period but my period isnt due untild ec. 2. I had my period a week before that night. I also feel nauseous sometimes and weak. But it goes away and isn't like food poisoning or stomach flu sickness that is acute and all the time.
Could this be the effects of the morning after pill though i took it almost 2 weeks ago now, or eartly signs of pregnancy and the emergency contraception failed?
I already have a daughter who's 5. I just remember some similarities only w/her it was more like around 4 weeks.
also I keep having to pee. could the side effects of this pill still show up?
ETA I went to Planned Parenthood pregnancy etst---negative
trichomoniasis/other bacterial vaginal ifnections---negative
waiting on syphilis/gonorrhea/chlymidida
come back in 3 mons to test for HIV
I have a "period" from the pill now and thats why i wa shaving all thsoe symptoms...so no i didn't "get what i deserve" according to some
Texted him last night asking if he had HIV and did he infect me on purpose. This is what he put in response this morning:
"what the fuck are you talking about?? I don't even have anything!! are you kidding me right now? Holy shit that's crazy shit to be accusing someone of. I'm extremely disrespected by that and have not given you any reason to think. I think you need some help. NOW I defintiely know I don't want to be with you. You made that decision very easy for me. Good luck and don't accuse me of bs anymore."
I respodned with "Good morning to you as well. look i'm sorry but my friend thought mayeb you did this (I lyed). She said there are guys out there who will purposely ifnect a woman and truth is I'm not crazy bc I don't knwo you thatw ell. I started to freak out. I'm sorry I offended you. I can understand your "decision" but I think you amde before I texted this anyway...I deleted my profile ont hat site (true) bc I am tired of being used for sex by guys. i want a relationship or friendship. On that note I hope we can still be friends and sorry that I offended you. Sometimes when my anxiety acts up i say the wrong things. "
He repleid abck "yes you do say the wrong things. I have to get ready for work now so i will get back to you later maybe I'm not sure."
It's true i deleted my profile---I'm done being someone's borrowed sex toy and I don't want to elave my daughter motherless bc I catch some nasty std and die young. I admit I was happy he even responded, albeit negatvie attention. Which i know is sad and pathetic. I liekd him i guess and he made me feel special. Do you think he hates me now?
Was i out of line? Should i have worded it differently? was in the wrong for asking him?
do you think he was saying "you made that decision very easy for me" almsot like he was happy to turn it around on me when reality is is he was using me and kenw it?