my thanksgiving is ruined, now what in the hell am i to do???
Ok 2 months ago I made plans to spend thanksgiving with my sister and her family, she is planning a huge get together and it's the last time I will get to see her before her family moves.( over seas) I was really looking forward to it, but then things came up..
Now when we made plans it was while my husband was deployed over seas, his 5 year old son was with BM. I cleared my plans with DH JUST like I normally do with other stuff. I got plane tickets for myself and our infant son, DH was planning to just stay home. He doesn't get along with my mother and rather then starting drama he decided to just stay away. Which is fine, he would be board anyways... no tv or anyway to play is video games.
Any ways everything was all set up, until DH decided that he wanted SS to be here for thanksgiving. We have every other holidays with BM, so this year he was suppose to be with her. But because DH was deployed and hadn't seen him in over 6 months he talked BM into letting him be with us, this being after I already made plans and bought plane tickets! So then I had to figure out what I am to do about the SS, DH can't travel that far for from the base he is stationed at without taking leave. Which he has none to spare because we use that for Christmas every year, and he has to work so who is going to watch the lo for the 5 days I was originally planning to be gone?
So then I had to cancel the plane tickets, I was suppose to leave today. Was really hoping we could just drive the 5 hours, but as I mentioned it's too far way for him to travel with out taking leave. So now I'm stuck at home, 3 days before thanksgiving with nothing to cook.. because I wasnt going to be here and all of this pretty much happened over night.
I know I should just be happy we are together but these plans were made months ago, I think I have every right to be upset about it.