A few weeks back, he was caught kissing a girl in class. No big deal. The teacher just explained that it is inappropriate at school with friends, but that high 5s or hugs are OK.
Anyways, DH and I both sat down with him and explained to him that these feelings are completely natural to have, and are nothing to be ashamed of. But with that said that Mrs. B was right, that this was just a little inappropriate for school.
More detail: he had been writing this girl love letters/drawings saying "I love ___" over and over." He told us he only likes that girl as a friend, which we were like it is ok if you like her either way, just be honest with others, (Golden rule) just like you would want them to be with you.
BM texts DH last night asking about a kissing situation with another girl, we did not know of.
She is flipping her shit, saying their son is not capable of doing things like this (who is she kidding.) And was saying that the girls parents are weird, it had to be the girl who did it because she is "very agressive."
She is saying that her and DH need to figure it out with SS because he can get charged with sexual harassment.... OK really? Sorry that is a bit off the deep end...
Also, these kids are all at "fault," SS is just as capable as these girls. He writes them love notes, they try to kiss him, or he tries to kiss them.
How would you deflate the situation if you were in DHs shoes?
DH is custodial parent having just over 50% custody. The split is just about every other week, he is with us a couple more days than BM.