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did the father know?

Anonymous
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If you've had an abortion, did the father know? Did you consider his opinion?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 28, 2013 at 9:15 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 28, 2013 at 9:16 PM

Bump

sparkle.ana
by on Nov. 28, 2013 at 9:17 PM
Yes, he knew. No, I didn't consider his opinion at all, je wanted me to continue the pregnancy. I had an abortion.
RhiannonMare
by on Nov. 28, 2013 at 9:17 PM

Yes, he knew and yes, I considered his opinion.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 28, 2013 at 9:19 PM
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He has no right to have an opinion.
AnnaBright
by Gold Member on Nov. 28, 2013 at 9:21 PM
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One of my closest friends had one and her now ex then dh didn't know. Thank God! He almost killed her 4 times prior , hence the abortion.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 28, 2013 at 9:22 PM
Yes. I asked him about it first and he didn't care.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 28, 2013 at 10:12 PM
No but I would tell him if I had considered it. This baby is as much his as it is mine.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 28, 2013 at 10:15 PM
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If I ever went that route father would be a part of the decision making process. Unless of course complete and utter abandonment was part of the equation.
alexsmomaubrys2
by Ruby Member on Nov. 28, 2013 at 10:17 PM

I have not had an abortion but if I were to, it would have to be a mutual decision for me to consider it. 

**If I wasn't married or in a serious long term relationship, I probably wouldn't consult the man before hand.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 28, 2013 at 10:21 PM

Yes he knew...he was incredibly abusive and one night while beating me he told me that if I didn't have an abortion that one way or another I would not be having the baby.....I was terrified of him.  His family was very wealthy and I had nowhere to go.

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