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A 3 some with exdh really?!

Anonymous
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So my exdh of seven years asked me to have a 3some with him and his current wife. We dont fight me and his new wife get along (we went out for a few drinks and shes really a great sm to my kids) . However this just isnt my cup of tea . Its weird to me that exdh would even ask me that considering that the last 3 years of our marriage was sexless(i had let myself go i was 5'7 and 285lbs ). Any way how do i respectfully turn the offer down with out causing tension between us? I really have a good thing going on and id like to be on friendly terms with them.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 30, 2013 at 1:52 PM
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JealousGrrl
by Gold Member on Nov. 30, 2013 at 1:53 PM
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Just say you are not into it, and want to preserve the relationship you have without added complications.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 30, 2013 at 1:53 PM
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Simple. Tell them hell no! That's nasty.
vegaswife2011
by Emerald Member on Nov. 30, 2013 at 1:53 PM

Fucking terrible idea!

Mommysmadae
by on Nov. 30, 2013 at 1:54 PM

A simple no should do it. If they don't like that answer then screw them. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 30, 2013 at 1:56 PM
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you have a bad case of the yeast infections?

armywifey26
by Krissy on Nov. 30, 2013 at 2:02 PM
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Just tell him 3 ways just aren't your thing and good luck on his search in finding a third. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 30, 2013 at 2:04 PM
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That was my first thought when he asked me.


Quoting vegaswife2011:

Fucking terrible idea!


Apgsteenmommy
by on Nov. 30, 2013 at 2:05 PM
Ugh :/
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 30, 2013 at 2:07 PM

that's awkward.....just say no thanks...

FoxFire363
by Ruby Member on Nov. 30, 2013 at 2:07 PM
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Tell him you don't want to complicate the coparenting balance you've managed to establish by messing up the dynamic between all of you.
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