Now, if mil made any other effort to spend time with dd id have no problem with her missing a nap or two to go see grandma at work I want my dd to know all her grandparents. But she doesn't. She calls, tells us she bought her stuff and to come to her work with dd to get it... Always during nap time!
Dh and I have tried to make plans on weekend mornings, evening and afternoons but she's always doing something and and says it would be better for her to do it during the week. But she'll buy her something when she's out. (Uh stop trying to buy her love)
Well I'm done catering to her, and letting her play the worlds greatest grandma card.
If she wants to see dd it will be after her nap and not at work, maybe at the park or our house or hers where they can get to know each other. Dd cries when she picks her up and reaches for me and hides her head in my chest and it makes mil mad but it is to be expected... She doesn't know her!
I think this has a little (if not a lot) with mil never liking me. She said I stole her son, she took me to dinner 8 years ago to tell me I would never be seeing her son again. She said my maid of honor was the most beautiful girl in the room on our wedding day.