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My confession: My email got her fired.

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I have this "family member" who has been a bitch to me my whole life. I could name countless heartless, sneaky underhanded things she has done to make my life hell from the time she entered my life at 4 years old. So she had it coming I think.

Most recently, she's been stalking me on facebook...showing people I'm close to things that I post and telling them I'm talking about them when I posted it, screenshotting things I've said (for what purpose I don't know)...she even went so far as to tell my friend that I got married for lust and not love (nevermind we don't talk and she's never met my husband and hello? we were having sex before we got married so idk what her point was?)

Anyway, I texted her and asked her to leave me the hell alone. Well, first I asked her to talk because I was getting pissed and wanted to know why she was doing all this. She refused...told me when I could have a rational discussion without all the false accusations we could talk. Um, ok. Well, then I just told her I didn't care what the fuck she did just leave my name out of your mouth, leave me the hell alone. I deleted and blocked her and deleted anyone else that had ties with her on facebook, including some other family members. Well, she continued.

So, I got on my daughter's fb account (who was still friends with her at the time) and was looking at her wall one day because she's got pics of my kids all over it, acting like grandmother of the year *eye roll*. Under one pic, I see she's having a conversation...a very public conversation about how she hates her job and is actively looking for a new one. (she is allllllways complaining about that job-she worked in the education field)hmmmm.... I copied and pasted the whole conversation and emailed to the superintendant of the school and I said "Is it your policy for your employees to actively job search on a public social networking site? Maybe you should give this job to someone who actually wants it." SEND!

From that point on, I kept hearing how her boss was "fucking with her", writing her up for dumb shit, trying to get her to "take leave", telling her she brings too many personal problems to work, etc...she ended up getting suspended, then terminated ULTIMATELY for a separate incident BUT none of that stuff started happening until I sent that email. So, in a way, I feel I had a significant part in her demise. I'm normally not a vindictive person. I'm normally very nice. But, that shit felt good. That is my confession.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 1, 2013 at 1:07 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 1, 2013 at 6:18 PM
Well, i don't see it that way. *shrug*

Quoting Anonymous:

It is the same, doesn't matter how many more times she's done it than you, what are you in kindergarten that it would? You don't get to pick your family and some family members really suck. They do things that we don't like, they can be ridiculous and annoying, and sometimes we can't choose to just write them totally out of our lives because that would mean missing out on memories and times with other family members. But you put yourself on her level, that level you hate about her. So actually, since you know how much you hated her doing it, since you know this impacted her financially, what you did was as bad as what she was doing, no matter what spin you try to put on it.



Quoting Anonymous:

Hers was constant...mine was not. Not the same.





Quoting Anonymous:

So...you basically did to her what she was doing to you? Well, I guess you have no more room to get upset if she continues as you are now no better than her. So your problem is solved.
cassandrans
by Bronze Member on Dec. 1, 2013 at 6:19 PM
I think it's pretty smart. She blasted it out there, you just sent it to the appropriate people.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 1, 2013 at 6:29 PM
Thanks lol

Quoting cassandrans:

I think it's pretty smart. She blasted it out there, you just sent it to the appropriate people.
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