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I have to get rid of my doggie :(

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My mom called me up and said my pup has to go :(( (yes, I live with my parents so forget anything you read further and go ahead and focus and bash that).

Anyway, he is a Boxer/Great Pyr. mix. He killed a cat outside in the backyard. Well, my mom said it was severely mauled and won't make it. Either way...

He's also killed a squirrel. Apparently, doing what dogs do is frowned on. I've read Great Pyr's are bred to protect the farm from predators so he has that instinct.

Unfortunately, he has been quite aggressive with the other two dogs. He hasn't fought the other two in quite some time but she's freaking out and I kind of agree with her. Who knows when he'll be aggressive again and with who. It could be my DS next and I won't have it.

It just makes me so sad. Other than being animal aggressive, we cannot have anyone over to the house because he will literally bark for DAYS if that person remains in the house. He *IS* an awesome dog. He obeys commands very well, he is mild mannered other than the main issue. I have established my dominance in the pack so I have zero issues with him.

I feel awful. I won't take him to the pound or humane society bc either way, he'll be put down. It's going to be very difficult to place him with anyone bc he needs room to run, no animals or no young children families. I'm thinking a rescue of some sort who may take him.

My heart is breaking into pieces. That's my bud.
:((

ETA:

1. Thank you for those who've been understanding and understand what a prey drive is and that this is "normal" dog behavior especially for his combination of breed. Unfortunately, he is aggressive with our other two dogs, which is why I have no other choice but to get rid of him. He does snarl at people at the vet and it's just too risky to keep him and honestly, I would 100% keep him and work with him if I did have an option. Since I do live with my parents, I keep up the tride and true CM rule of "their house, their rules". I'll be living with them for another year until I finish school. I'm working on getting a job now that will work with my already full hours that I have with school and start saving to get out but it won't be quick enough that I'll have a say in him leaving or staying.

I do take full responsibility for his other actions other than the prey drive. He has a very high prey drive but I should have socialized him much, much more but I didn't. So yes, I do feel like I've failed my dog but at this point, I can no longer do anything about it because of the way he acts out in public and with my limited amount of time I'm home.

I'm very grateful for my parents taking care of him while I'm gone but my dad claims "he can't handle him" while he's home alone and will crate him and one of our other dogs for 12 hours or more until someone comes home. It's not fair to him. Btw, when he's out of his crate, he doesn't do anything but lay down. He's not rambuncious in the house so I have NO CLUE wtf he's talking about. He's too young and too energetic to be crated for so long. I play ball with him outside as much as I can to get some of his energy out but it doesn't always pan out.

I've been pleading my case with my parents while I've been on shift and tried to when I just got home this morning. I'll be back on shift at 11 so I won't have much time. I'm doing some research before I have to go again because I want him to have the best tranisition possible. He deserves that much. I love him with all of my heart and although some of you are crazy, I'd rather him be rehomed in a place where he's comfortable, he gets to run and isn't afraid of strangers. That's my hope.

by on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:47 PM

Sounds like it is for the best. I would not want a dog like that around my child.

nicbruuu
by Member on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:47 PM
Would there have been anyway he couldve gotten rabies. I know increased aggression is a big sign. My parents own a shelter and thats always the first thing they vaccinate/test for
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:48 PM

You obviously have no clue what a good dog is, if an aggressive, noisy dog that mauls animals to death, and frightens humans is what you describe as awesome.

Foolynroo2
by Ruby Member on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:48 PM

So it's your contention, that dogs are not predators?

What type of dogs have you owned and helped an Aunt raise?


Quoting Anonymous:

I've owned dogs, and I've helped my aunt raise dogs. I've never seen a dog that felt the need to maul another animal to death.

So, no. It isn't "What dogs do"

Quoting FelineTopic:

Cats are natural enemies to dogs...

So...

Yes...

That is what dogs do....

If the squirrel wandered into the dog's territory, then again, yes, the dog acted naturally in attacking the squirrel...


Quoting Pandapanda:

Yeah I agree.. dogs shouldnt be mauling or killing other animals, especially ones much smaller than them.



Quoting Anonymous:

Your aggressive dog mauled two animals to death. That isn't "What dogs do".




Cmgmqmmom
by Sass Queen on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:48 PM
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It's sad that people know nothing about dog behavior. A dog that is aggressive with random animals is not automatically going to be aggressive with a child or person. The ignorance is astounding.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:48 PM

Sorry you have to get rid of your dog but I think you are doing the right thing.  We got a dog off a friend of ours that was going to take him to the humane society because she had to move and the landlord would not allow pets.  What she failed to tell me is that this dog hated males, he snapped at my son because he sat down beside me and would not stop growling at my husband, we gave him back after 2 days.

AliKatAK47
by Meanie Pants on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:48 PM
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Actually, yea they are. Depending on the Breed. Boxers were originally a fighting breed, and became a Guardian so they have EXTREME prey drive, and Pyrs are flock guardians, They will defend their territory to the death sometimes.  Mix the two and you could get a dog that attacks other animals and isn't good with strangers coming in their territory.  

OP. I am sorry that your dog has to be rehomed. Look into Boxer and Pyr rescues on Petfinder.

Quoting Pandapanda:

Yeah I agree.. dogs shouldnt be mauling or killing other animals, especially ones much smaller than them.

Quoting Anonymous:

Your aggressive dog mauled two animals to death. That isn't "What dogs do".


Melissa_4
by Ruby Member on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:49 PM

I'm sorry hun.  :-(

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:49 PM

What commands is he obeying by barking for days because company comes over? Or when he attacks other animals?

Sorry, no. No way I would let a dog like that around my children, even if he's never shown any aggression towards them.

BeAmour
by Tonya on Dec. 1, 2013 at 3:49 PM
Yes, they are very friendly. He is very friendly but not to other animals. Trust me, he is definitely half Pyr and half Boxer. His dad is a Pyr and has the extra dew (due?) claw.

I know where he'd go, that's why I won't take him there.


Quoting Anonymous:

Sorry, but the dog you are describing does not sound like a  Great Pyr. It sounds more like a dog bread to be aggressive. Great Pyr's are friendly, and gentle. They protect, yes, a squirrel and a cat should not have been mauled to death over it.

Had it been someone's pet cat, your dog would not even be allowed in a shelter. It would be hauled off by animal services for being an aggressively violent dog.

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