my oldest is 18 and allowed to have her boyfriend over as long as the door remains open and lights on. I just went upstairs to ask her something and she was acting all weird and shut her door real quick. I thought she was just changing and didn't think much of it until I looked outside and saw her boyfriends car. I ran back upstairs and told them I know what was going on and I am not allowing that in my house. She of course started denying anything happened and he just kept saying yes ma'am. I'm not stupid, she's 18,knows all the rules but I'm just heart broken. I thought my daughter was more respectful than that.....please no bashing , I just needed to vent......for those saying I'm in denial or blind....where did I say I didn't think she was doing it? She was put on birth control the minute she started dating (16) and he was not allowed over until 18 (he's the only boy she's ever dated) I just thought she had more respect than to do it at my house.
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