I'm not even sure if I want to get involved with this guy.. *vent, possibly long..*
I was on a late night waffle house run with my bff over thanksgiving break when she came home from college. I got there before she did so I went ahead inside and got us a table. Two guys were leaving and as I sat down I noticed one turned around to come back into the restraunt - he sat in front of me at the same table! I said "Do I know you?" and he said "Not yet, but I'd really really like to know you. Is there any chance that you're single?" I told him I was and he wrote his number down on a napkin and gave it to me. He asked if I was from there and I said no (I live about an hour from where we were, it's halfway for bff and I to meet). He said "well, that doesn't matter. My brother is ready to go, we're heading back home. PLEASE call me tonight. Let me know you got to where you're going alright!" I was like eer, okay. Lol..
He is really sweet! He lives in NC and I'm in SC. He comes down here every weekend.
He was married, too. He just got out of a divorce and his wife is currently pregnant (baby is due on my birthday-.- LOL and this guy's birthday is the day I married exDH!), but he doesn't know if the child is his or not because she cheated (hence the divorce). He found out today it's a boy and he shared the news with me. :)
Anyway. I told him I'm not sure if I want things to progress because if I catch feelings for him and then he decides to get back with her, that just leaves me heartbroken.. again. He said that's out of the question because he can't stand her, he just wants to be there for his son because he himself grew up without a dad. Me getting back with DDs dad is out of the question 1000000%.
I remember when DH left, I was crying and my dad said "somewhere out there, there's a guy who may be going through the same thing you are. He knows your pain and he may even have a child or two, but he'll find you!
I just don't know if I want to take this guy seriously or WHAT. He seemed pretty devastated when I told him I'm not sure if I want things to progress, but I agreed to see him next weekend for our first "date".
Vent over.. lol