Black and white this sounds like the best idea but im still torn.
Im 20 with a 14month old. I have medical problems that make it hard to take care of my baby. After i had my baby i never planned on being sick like i am. It has broke me down to nothing to this day. I keep getting sicker and sicker and there so far as only been one clear medical problem that the doctors are sure of. I only have my ged it took me nearly a year to get it. I cant work its heart breaking to depend on welfare. My babys father works and goes to college but hes a selfish jerk and hasn't bothered to help at all. I start college in jan. Now dd fathers parents have stepped up. They help me as best as they can because the live in New York. NY. We came to an idea where they could only have limited custody of dd so i can go to college and work a low impact job and save money and work on getting better. As in dd live with them the max a year. But im torn because well this is my baby. We would Skype everyday of course and i would visit every two weeks. My heart says yes but my mind says no. I know dds grandparents are well fit on taking care of her and will do a wonderful job and i know dd will be happy and surrounded by love and she will be taken care of financially as well.