Shes a FELON!!! What can I do next??!!!**UPDATE!!!!
This week was their fathers week, but I asked him if I could have the boys for the weekend.
I had a feeling that my ex husbands girlfriend had picked them up from school.
I asked the girl at the front if the ex husband had added anyone else to the pickup list, but he hadnt. However, I noticed there was a sticky note with some writing on it. I asked the girl to tell me what it said, and it was a note with the girlfriends name on it
My problem with this?? I have NO idea who she is, or her name. The ex won't let me meet her.
I MADE myself speak to her a few weeks ago. He met me at McDonald's to pick up our kids. I had a feeling he had someone in his car, so I walked up to the car, and she was trying to hide from me.
I opened her car door, and introduced mysellf. She seemed VERY nice, but I was confused WHY he had refused to introduce us to one another.
Mind you, he doesn't want to meet MY S/O, for God know what reason, but as a mature adult, I WANT to know who is around my children
Well back to my story from yesterday. I get her full name, and they tell me that they can't refuse her to pick up my sons, only if its in our court order.
Anyways, I leave and I begin to dig for some info on her.
I google photos, and her photo pops up as a MUG SHOT!!! I look at her charges, and she has 4 charges for Traffic in stolen property. She has 13 years probation sentence. Expires 2027
Well today, I do some more research, and find out this woman has a battery charge, and drug possession charges- her bail was set for $20,000!! I found 5 mug shots in total! Her latest arrest was just last September for traffic in stolen property
This is NOT the type of woman I want around my children!!! I am in shock as to why my ex husband is with her? Does he know ab her charges? Or did he not tell me who she is bc he didn't want me to find this out??
My question is- what's my next step? Do I need to hire a PI to get evidence that they are together??
Will I be able to use that evidence in court?
Anyone been through this?
The school situation is not at the top of my worries. Yes, it concerns me, but EVERYTHING else in this post is what I'm really asking advice for
Their father has not called in 3 days.
This evening I receive a text... From HER! I figured it could be her, so I call the number. Goes straight to voicemail. What do you know??!! "Hi.. You've reached *****, I can't come to the phone.. Etc" BINGO. I knew it. I wait a few minutes and try again. This time she picks up and hangs up.
I immediately call my ex. No answer. So I leave him a message to let him know to tell her to NEVER text me again.
I'm beyond LIVID. She really has the audacity to contact me??!! Who does this girl think she is???!!
Photo of the text on pg 20 not 12- I am GREEN