do you ever just feel very different from everyone else?
I don't care if my husband has female friends, he works in a female dominated field and you are usually friendly with your coworkers.
I don't snoop, he is allowed a private life as am I.
I don't care if I am pretty or not, it has nothing to do with who I am.
I never once contemplated being a sahm, I didn't really know anyone who did that (I do now, but few and far between) & I am glad I didn't. (Dh lost his good paying job and our roles were reversed after #2)
I didn't think his child support (he has 4older kids) should have been lowered because we had kids, I figured I could handle our kids on my salary. I never wanted my presence to change his kids lives, anymore than it had to.
I married a man who had 4 kids, with 3 women, when I had none & at the time had no plans for kids.
I could go on...